Using the power of thought to get your dream man

 

 

Everything begins in thought!

Look around you wherever you are. Everything you see is the result of thought. Every piece of furniture, every fixture, every wall. Thoughts create after their own kind. Everything you are today is a result of a combination of your thoughts regardless of whether they were positive or negative.
Even scientists cannot pinpoint the exact properties that culminate in thought. The best approximation they are able to give at this time is to liken them to electricity, with higher voltage equaling a greater charge. This definition is sufficient because like electricity, you don't need to know the exact properties in order to benefit from it's usage. All you really need to know is that thought reproduces after it's kind, and the greater the intensity of said thought the faster, and more powerful the results. Make no mistake about it, there ARE people who have such intense thoughts (which have evolved into beliefs)- that they change the world. And if you don't believe that look at Nelson Mandela, Oprah, Martin Luther, and the man in the white house. The wonderful thing about us humans is that we are the ONLY creatures the creator allowed to decide our own destinies. We do this through THOUGHT which becomes -actions-which become-habits-which become a destiny!

What you focus on grows in your life:

Ever woke up late and everything from that point on seem to go wrong? Your coffee was too strong, you had a run in your stocking, the kids were screaming, and someone cut you off as you rushed to work. What you experienced were thoughts of stress and anger being manifested. We do it all the time we just don't usually notice. It's so important to guard our thoughts because they make our lives good or bad. They are constantly manifesting, and producing after their own kind. They are constantly providing a mirror with which we can see what we have been thinking. Ever notice how when you get a new car, you suddenly see it everywhere? Where did they all come from? The truth is they were always there you just did not notice because you were not focused on it. Focus on your blessings, focus on how good God has been to you. Give thanks for everything you've been given and once you thank the universe (or God-whomever you choose) then focus your mind on the type of man you want. Write it down-but leave things such as height without too much distinction. exp. 5.8+ rather than 6.4. the most important things you want to add are the personality traits. exp. patient, kind, compassionate, funny, articulate etc. Take stock of your own personality and really think about the kind of man that would compliment you. Once you have it written down. recite it before you go to bed at night. Did you know that when you close your eyes at night is when the subconscious wakes up as the conscious mind goes to sleep. When you recite what you are really looking for and want in a man, your subconscious will be listening, and will find ways to bring him to you. That's why after you've done this a number of weeks, it's extremely important for you to pay attention to your hunches...

What you seek is seeking you.

It's important to remember that anytime you are looking for something-it's also looking for you. I know, I know it sounds kind of weird. I remember reading this years ago in a metaphysical book and they claimed if you wanted to experiment with this concept. Simply imagine an article of something that has been missing awhile but you are sure is in the house. The book said to actually 'call' this particular thing that you are looking for and ask it to tell you where it was. I remember reading that and cracking up. It just sounded so far fetched. But on the other hand I strongly believe that what actually happens in life is FAR, FAR more incredible than anything people can make up, so I tried it.  The first couple of times nothing happened, but then things got weird because I was trying to call my keys one day and I was late for a meeting. I was a little frustrated, and I snapped. silently.  "I don't have all day just lead me to where you are! " I was in the process of chiding myself for mentally talking to keys when I had a clear picture of them in a bag of trash I'd taken out of the car. "This is ridiculous " I thought as I went to check. Sure enough they were in the bag!  Since then I've found that it works for me about 75-80% of the time. When I'm upset I can't seem to connect, but usually when I calm down I'll get a feeling or the picture will pop into my head, and I WILL find what I was looking for. I know it sounds crazy, but I'm telling you to try it for yourself. And this also works with people. Picture the man you want in your life. See him there feel him there, and believe he will be there and watch and see if he does not walk into your life...

Help the Universe out a little....

Now it's important that you actually get out of the house when you're trying to meet a good man. So many women sit at home before AND after work and then complain that they never meet interesting men! That's like going to work and saying "pay me and then I'll put some work in" It does not happen like that. You cannot meet Mr right from your sofa! You MUST get out! And more than that, you must get out into a better crowd. Don't expect to meet marriage minded, good husbands in bars, strip clubs, detox centers and the like. Now I'm not saying that good people don't ever go to these places. What I'm saying is that most good people do not frequent these places, and that the chances of finding Mr right here and slim. Go to upper income places like tennis matches, golf games (many good wm love golf). Skying, various water sports, take a mechanics course-they are ALWAYS filled with men. Frequent art galleries etc. It all depends on the type of man YOU are looking for. Go to the places he is likely to be. Make sure you look good, this will increase your confidence, and don't be afraid to strike up a conversation. Most men are very relieved not to have to always do the initiating.
Anyway, these are some starter tips and we'll go into greater detail later....
Thank you all for tuning in -see you later.

How to get a fresh new start this YEAR!!

 Hello all....


I'm going to be posting prior entries from Interracial love and spice on here so that I can try to get the old blog taken down. I've been directed to several sites where my work has simply been COPIED verbatim and ppl are simply claiming it as theirs!
So I'm going to contact blogger about having it taken down but needed to save the entries for future work, so I will repost them here....


I know many of you ladies just need someone to point out something you already know -so here goes...

Lets move on.... I think most of us want to make a fresh start in 2013. I know many of you are looking forward to that more than anything. In order to make 2013 a different kind of year you MUST set goals. Decide what you want in life, and make a plan to get it.

It sounds too simplistic, but it is the basis for all achievement. I wanted to give you ladies some advice that would really make a difference in your new year, so here goes. These are the things that most people want to change.



lose some weight.
Many of us want to drop a few pounds, and the easiest way to do it without alot of stress and strain, is to simply start to walk everyday.
Even if it's too cold to walk outside and you don't have a treadmill, then simply walk to your favorite shows, back and forth in front of the tv.
If you want to drop weight super-fast, then walk to your shows for I hour per day, and add lots of fruit/vegetables to your daily meals.
Don't worry about diets, just add lots of fruits and veggies to your meals. (especially fruit-because the only fruit that does not bring on weight loss
is banana. They are still very good for you but they don't cause weight loss like apples, oranges berries (all) pineapples, watermelon, -well pretty much all the rest do.
Citrus fruit is especially weight -reducing. The reason is that your body has to work so hard to break down the fruit for consumption, you end up with negative calories, and lose weight....


Learn something new!

Many people want to finish a degree or pursue some self-study. This is an
excellent idea because we should always keep learning.
And speaking of learning. Did you know that the more you learn the easier it is to learn more? The brain is like a muscle, the more you use it the more connections and neurons it creates. This facilitates learning, and in essence, you become smarter.
So even if you are finished with college and don't feel that you need any further schooling, always undertake self-study or pursue some type of learning.
One of the greatest area's of study for black women is to learn to speak a new language. Nothing seems to elevate one's sex appeal, and image like being able to converse in a new language.....


Change your habits-change your life
Some of us are stuck in a rut due to the bad habits we have engaged in time and again. The best way to get out of a rut, is to start with a list of 6-10 things you want to change. Take 2 of those things and put them up on your wall for the month. Every day work on those things you want to change. A new habit usually takes about 1 month (28 days). So in order to bring a new desired habit, all you have to do keep doing it! When it becomes entrenched, then move on to the next
habit you want to change, and repeat the process. The process for getting rid of bad habits, is to do the opposite. Simply refrain from doing those things until you no longer desire them. Think of habits like a path through a forest. When the path is seldom walked, it is difficult to discern, and unclear. But when it is heavily walked, it becomes more and more visible and grooved. Your
mind is the same way. Any habit that is done consistently will become more deeply entrenched and likely to produce after itself....


Get into a better crowd!

Drop whatever in your life that is NOT in your best interest. This includes people! Did you know that 95% of people make within 3-5000.00 of what their 3 best friends make? You see people rub off on each other. This is why wealthy people donot like to hang out with broke people. They are aware that the energy WILL rub off, and they are aware of how detrimental it can be to their finances. Whatever you are trying to be in life, get around those types of people. When a friend of mine was complaining about her daughter skipping school and getting into trouble, one of the teacher's recommended that she get her away from the people she hung with (delinquents) before it was too late. My friend immediately moved her child to a better school where she would not have access to her old crowd. She began to hang with a more studious crowd, and her grades, as well as her behavior, immediately improved. This dynamic will work
wonders in your life as well. If you are hanging with negative, mean spirited, spiteful, and angry people, you will find yourself acting the same way. And your life will be a reflection of this. Try putting yourself around a better crowd and hanging with winners, and you will immediately see how much better your life is turning out to be.....


Finally since for most of us, our finances are the main problem. I wanted to throw some really great info at you ladies. Since I'm a real estate consultant, obviously most of it will deal with real estate.....

How to get a FREE HOUSE This Year!

Did you know that there is a law on the books called the Adverse Possession law. Now it varies
by state, but the gist of it is that abandoned houses are basically free for the taking. Let me explain.
Say someone named Donna walks home from work everyday. And everyday, she passes a boarded up house. She looks at it longingly because it's twice the size of the house she rents, and she desperately needs more space. As she's telling her friend Jane, about it at lunch the next day, her friend suddenly snaps to attention. "Why don't you check title and ownership? " she asks. "Perhaps the people are deceased, or don't want it. Donna had no idea what you was
talking about but Jane took the lead. The next day, she takes Donna down to the tax assessor's office, and armed with the address to the property-they look up the owner's name. Come to find
out, the owner had been missing for 3 years. No one knew where he was. Taxes had accumulated on his home and the city had boarded it and placed a lien on it. Jane immediately ordered a title report, and carefully went over it with Donna. Upon learning that it only had one lien and back taxes, Donna immediately began to pay the taxes. She ran an ad in the paper for several weeks. It announced that if anyone was interested in the property, they should contact her. (This is called giving constructive notice) afterwards, she had the boards removed, and began to repair the property. Several weeks later, she moved her family in. And even though she had to pay a few thousand for back taxes, and repairs. She was able to stop paying rent, and after the first year, and save a fortune. A few years later, she hired an attorney and was able to
obtain a 'quiet title'.
That's adverse possession in a nutshell. You can order a book on eBay or the 'net' if you feel you
don't have enough detail, but that's really the basis of it. The main thing to remember is to 'live openly'. That's why it's called adverse possession, because you are living 'adverse' to the owner's interests. Don't choose houses with extreme defects, because you'll eat up your savings making
extensive repairs. Easy ways to spot prospects are:

Boarded houses
neglected houses
overgrown lawns
broken windows
sagging porches
lots of notices left on door
high weeds
No electric (check box on side)
'feels vacant'
When you spot these signs, check for vacancy, and then talk to the neighbors. I guarantee you
they will know how long the owner has been gone, and probably, they will know what happened to them.



How to live in a Mansion and make 100.000 in 2010!

I love this plan. I actually didn't think of it. A realtor friend of mine has been using it for awhile.
It goes like this.

Go, and get a real estate license. Now if you go everyday, this will only take 2 weeks. If you go at night or only on Saturday, it will take longer. But you must have it to put this plan in action.
Market your services in the upper crust areas. Advertise in high end magazines, that you are a licensed agent, and that you will house-sit and sell their property for them.
Get them to sign an agreement that you will live in the house, take care of it, and sell it at the end of one year. You move in and run your business from the home. Towards the end of the year, you aggressively market it. 6% on a 2 million dollar home is 120.000. As long as there is
no listing agent, you will be able to keep the entire commission. If there is another agent, you will need to complete 2 transactions per year to make your targeted income..

Listen to your dreams-for your own sake....

Did you know that every one of us has a conscious, subconscious and many scientists believe a super conscious mind? Some of us are so busy living that we never take the time to really create the kind of life we want.Sometimes we've ignored our instincts to the point that the only time our sub conscious can communicate with us is through dreams. Let me give you an example....

Several years ago a member of my family (a  1st cousin) was hanging with a new friend of his, and every time I saw this person I felt that he was up to no good. But I had no tangible proof it was just a specious and non-specific feeling so I did not say anything. My cousin is a police officer, but the money in his particular city was not great, and despite having 2 college degrees, I knew he was
struggling. This was compounded by the fact that his wife loved to spend money, but was not very fond of working.

Well he seemed to be planning something with this new friend of his because everytime we would see him at family functions, he seemed to be in intense conversation with this particular 'friend'.
I was pretty worried about him because given his dire financial situation, I felt like something was about to happen. I tried numerous time to gently talk to him, but he rebuffed me, and told me everything was fine.

One night I fell asleep and as I drifted off I found myself in his apartment. Now I want to say that usually my dreams are not so clear and are usually more symbolic and I have to put the pieces together almost like a puzzle. But this night the dream was very vivid. I was in his apartment and I could see him, the friend, his brother and someone I didn't know sitting a table. They were talking in hushed tones-and didn't seem to know I was there.  At one point I heard my cousin say  "Listen whatever you're thinking, forget it, I'm not trying to go to jail and lose everything I've worked for, for 10 yrs"  His friend, we'll call Jarod chided him. "Man you such a P*&%$!"
"Ain't nuthin gon happen-cept we git paid! They began to argue. His brother seemed to stay quiet, as if it had nothing to do with him but he quietly laid my cousin's ID and a black glove on the table and walked away.  As he exited the door, my cousin turned to Jarod and ordered him to forget whatever it was they were arguing about.  Jarod agreed, but the look on his face said otherwise. as I watched, the scene changed to an unfamiliar house. This time I was outside and Jarod came running out. His clothes were covered in a dark substance, and he was looking around furtively as shoplifters often do.
Then he threw something in the back bushes and ran away, as the scene became very smoky.  Then we were back at my cousin's apt. and the police were kicking in the door! They grabbed my cousin(who was wearing his police uniform)  he looked shocked and horrified.  He glanced toward his brother who immediately put his hands over his mouth and backed away. As they turned to jarod he seemed to be crying and pointing at my cousin. My cousin had his mouth open in disbelief. he kept telling the officers "Yall know me! "
 "You know I wouldn't do this!" It was all to no avail, not only did they drag him roughly out the door, but once outside he was stripped off his uniform and set it on fire! Then he was behind bars looking desperate and old. His face looked so sad I woke up in tears. I couldn't shake the bad feeling I had so finally I grabbed the phone and called him. It was 7 in the morning so he was not particularly happy to hear from me. but I guess the panic in my voice finally overcame his irritation because he agreed to meet me for breakfast and a long talk

As I told him my dream he grew more and more pale. He finally admitted that jarod wanted to set a deliberate fire for the insurance money, but that he had managed to talk him out of it. I told him if my dream was true (and my vivid dreams almost ALWAYS come true) that jarod planned to go through with it anyway, and worse both jarod and his brother was going to implicate him. I knew this because of the ID and the pointing. He was going to go to jail and his  life, and career would go up in smoke. I told him that him brother held his hands over his mouth in my dream. You'll find when ppl do this in dreams -it almost always means they refuse to come to your rescue (or speak on your behalf)
Later my cousin (all 6ft 5inches) of him confronted Jarod and demanded to know if they had a plot.
Under fear of my cousin's wrath, Jarod finally admitted everything. He and Oscar (brother) were planning to set the fire anyway,and if things went bad, then plan b was to blame everything on my cousin, and use him as the fall guy.....

Always listen when your subconscious is trying to speak sometimes it will only tell you once, and you can easily save your life or the lives of the ones you love.....